Intelligent and Compassionate

I am American but have always felt out of place here. Most of my friends are Asian because I fell in love with the culture and communtiy while doing volunteer work. I hope to someday learn to speak Vietnamese fluently, so I can further serve the people that have shown me so much kindness. Looking For: I am looking for someone that is secure with himself. I want someone that is loving and tolerant and happy in life. I don't care about outter looks as long as his heart is kind. I want a guy that is fun and outgoing and romantic. He must like kids and be independant.